Girls are everywhere and many of them are open to fuck buddy relationships, short-term flings, and one-night stands if you catch them at the right time in their lives.

Bars and parties are notorious hunting grounds, but you can be bold anywhere. Talking to girls in the grocery store, library, work, coffee shop, stoplight, or anywhere else creates the opportunity for a connection that might pan out later.

When you turn this same skill towards the Internet, you have the advantage of being able to quickly filter out all the randomness, invested time that might go nowhere, and flakejobs. You can get right to the point and find girls near you who openly tell you they are looking for no-strings attached (NSA) hookups.

Most dating sites online are heavily discounted for women because good girls can pick up guys anywhere and are the lure for guys to check out the site. The girls reflect the talent you’d expect of girls from the local area, and your fuckbuddy arrangement will do best in the local area so logistics remain easy and practical. If you have more free time and can spend weekends in nearby areas, you can cast a wider net, but that’s not for everyone.

Also you’ve probably looked at Craigslist “Casual Encounters” category, but if you haven’t then don’t bother checking it out unless you are fishing for scary creatures that live in the crust under the bottom of the barrel. Free sites mean anyone can sign up, and that means anyone can, so the better quality sites will cost a little, whether they are dating personals or for hooking up. Figure it’s the same cost as buying a few drinks a month, but you get to survey a much larger group of girls that are good to go.

Many girls will delete their listings or go private after using the service for a while. Strike quick – action favors the bold. When you find a girl you’d like, use you best charm and chat with her live or send a message that will get her attention. You should personalize it to something they said in their listing or at least be different – a generic mass message you send all the girls isn’t likely to get a response.

Keep track of the girls you’ve contacted, personal information about them, and whether the trail is hot, warm, or cold. Focus on the hot ones and keep up pursuit to seal the deal.